There’s a story in Judaism that before God could create the world, he had to create space in which the world could be created: in Kabbalah it’s called tsimtsum and means “withdrawal.” So God withdrew to create space for creation.
When I was in college, the leader of a workshop on leadership told us he liked to always share his own ideas last in a meeting. “People aren’t going to listen to your ideas,” he said, “if they’re holding onto theirs. So after they share their ideas, they’re more receptive to others’.”
By speaking their ideas, making them manifest outside their bodies, they’re emptying something inside them that you can now fill more easily, with less resistance.
And when schools were shuttered in March, in order to work effectively from home, I had to rearrange furniture, gather the relevant supplies, and build a home office in the middle of my dining room (it was the only place I had, really, but it works).
In all these cases, it’s obvious that when we create a space for something, we can make it happen. Except, well… there are things I’m passionate about that I’ve never made space for–so is it any wonder that I’ve been neglecting these passions for years?
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